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1. Do something amazing

Do one thing astonishingly thoughtful and out of the normal and try to include a surprise to it: a love note hidden in his work lunch box. Stet up a special dinner for the two of you when the other least expects. make a play list created up along with his favorite songs. These thoughtful acts can plant you in your partner’s memory for a very long time.

2. Make them feel special by doing something they like on a regular basis.

Call them every day just to just talk for few minutes. Make their favorite food once a week. Once they begin to expect these things, you will always be close to their awareness.

3. Make eye contact


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This comes naturally for newer couples, but don’t drop this strong bonding behavior just because the relationship has progressed. This is one way to keep the “romance alive”, as they say, and is especially powerful when making love.

4. Learn what pleases your partner sexually.

They will be happy to have you experiment with them while making love. Make it clear that their pleasure is your pleasure, and you want to discover everything about what turns them on. This way you enjoy each other more.

5. Teach your partner what you like.

Research shows that the sexual pleasure of one partner increases the pleasure of the other partner. So, what makes you happy will make your partner feel good too.

6. Use sexual novelty to boost lasting love

When things get like routine, there is not going to be as much of a hormonal/neurotransmitter reaction. While you don’t have to break out the whips a little novelty while you’re making love can increase anticipation, which means that more hormones are secreted. The result? Hotter, more thrilling sex for both of you.