There are many people who attend church that dates and marry’s those of a similar faith. Some men’s religious beliefs can comprise a large part of their relationships, so similar spiritual values can be the most important aspect men look for in a girlfriend.
You may have to find a church that meets your spiritual needs and where you can serve. sometimes you may need to visit several churches, staying at each church a couple of weeks, to learn what the church is like. This part of the process can be quite time consuming.
Then you will have to decide what qualities are important to you in a girlfriend. Churches can recommend several character traits that will lead to a more successful relationship. Just a few of these include complimentary, independent, attractive, respectful and encouraging to your relationship with God.
Get involve in serving at the church once you find the right church. Working in the children’s ministry offers many opportunities to meet girls. A girl who is volunteering her time working with kids shows several things. She is probably not worried about being in the limelight, she loves to serve and she enjoys kids. Volunteer with the community outreach minister at the homeless shelter, senior center or hospital.
Be friendly but not obnoxious when you meet a girl you are interested in. This shows that you want to get to know her but that you will not try to smother her.Spending time with her in group settings allows you to see how she interacts with others.
Also seek counsel at churh to see if the girl is a good choice for you. Don’t be afraid to ask people you trust their opinions, if the girl is right for you ask the girl on a date. If the date goes well and you having fun, ask her on more dates.
Then when you are positive she is the right girl for you, ask the girl to be your girlfriend.